Exercise 5

Secret Personality Identifier List: Reality Check

1) Check all the behaviors you believe you have.

2) Have acquaintances, business associates or family who know you check off all the behaviors they have experienced on separate forms.

3) Note the behavioral strength of the person assessing your behaviors. (Planner, Builder, Relater, Adventurer)

4) Compare your perceptions with those of others!

Remember, you are identifying clusters of learned behaviors, not pigeon holing the person. Behaviors may change and often do adjust according to the situation.

Total each column: The highest total indicates the strongest communication strength of the person as perceived by the marker.

You may add ONLY POSITIVE behaviors that are not listed below clusters. This is a self-esteem builder not a “personal griping session!”

BUILDER	RELATER	PLANNER	ADVENTURER
prepared	friendly	logical	palyaful
saves	gives	creative	spends
leader	relater	strategist	mover
being in control	being accepted	being perfect	being spontaneous
duitiful	romantic	independent	comradship
sensible	harmonius	theoretical	lighthearted
responsible	loving	skeptical	exciting
power	sensitive heart	predicts	complete freedom
law and order	emotional	thinker	action
dependable	sympathetic	exactness	risks and chances
status	honest feelings	reasonable	fun and games
track record	people centered	analyzing	fast machines
authority	exterior detail	interior detail	quick
tradition	act as a team	innovative	merry making
accountable	group projects	mastery	easy-come easy-go

Total Checks: Add the total number of check marks in each column. You may wish to add words to the list.

Builder

Relater

Planner

Adventurer

NOTE: The Secret Personality Check List is an indicator of present behaviors for self and others. This chck list is not meant to indicate the behavioral strenghts s the Card Sort or Discovery Form.